Do cats knead specific family members more?

Cats knead some people with more vigour than others, depending on who they are bonded to. Your cat will probably only knead one or two family members, often the primary caregiver and food provider. Kneading of this nature signifies trust and a sense of safety.

Preference emerges through repetition of targeting. Cats will knead the same person throughout calm bonding rituals, such as an evening spent winding down on a lap. They may ignore other people during these moments. This occurs because cats associate particular smells and routines with the reward of feeling good and relaxation, which motivates them to make this choice.

Build your kneading bond through predictable routines. Your cat comes to you on its own terms, so always respond gently when it does. Always offer a treat after cuddly sessions as a form of positive reinforcement. Avoid startling movements that may betray trust. Reliability in these little things earns their love.

Please note that preferences may change over time. New babies or pets may attract your cat's interest more than you do for a while. Try to maintain usual rituals during any periods of adjustment. After my hospitalization, my cat abandoned her preference for a time, but when life reverted to "normal," so did her kneading. Take your time, and you won't lose these wonderful bonding moments.

Read the full article: 5 Fascinating Reasons Behind Cat Kneading Behavior