Should you allow cats to knead on you?
Written by
David Smith
Reviewed by
Prof. David Walsh, Ph.D.Allowing cats to knead on you is a great way to bond, but it should be done with care. It's a sign of immense trust, and your cat likely associates the warmth of your body with the security of kittenhood. Kneading results in the release of the pleasure-inducing chemical dopamine in cats, strengthening the behavior through positive reinforcement. Always be cautious of your cat's safety when allowing it to knead on you.
Thick blankets will spare your skin from claws when your cat kneads your lap. Never punish this instinctive behavior; it would only injure your relationship. Provide soft places close at hand instead, so that you can reward your cat with treats when he uses them.
Emotional Bonding
- Releases oxytocin in both cats and humans
- Creates shared relaxation moments
Stress Reduction
- Rhythmic motion lowers feline heart rate
- Provides security during environmental changes
Behavioral Health
- Prevents frustration from suppressed instincts
- Supports natural scent-marking needs
Watch for your cat's body language while enjoying a kneading session: An outwardly relaxed position and loud purring means she is happy. If you see tense muscles and her breathing is fast or agitated, she might be overstimulated: Distract her gently with a blanket placed nearby and she'll probably knead it for a while instead of your lap! What's good for the cat is good for you both!
Read the full article: 5 Fascinating Reasons Behind Cat Kneading Behavior
